Bryson's First Award

Being a parent is certainly not for the weak-spirited, and if you've read my blog before, then you've probably read about some of my frustrations and worries about being a mommy. I'll just be honest, there have been moments over the last six years where I've seriously questioned my parenting skills. Some days I've felt like I discipline more than I do anything else! I've told my sister and husband before that if I just knew that at some point my child would grow into a well-behaved person, I wouldn't stress nearly so much, but since there is no crystal ball, and my little darlings have occasionally given me reason to wonder if that will ever happen, I just have to keep plugging along and hope and pray I'm doing something right!

And then there are moments when my child shows maturity and self-control I didn't know he had or shares when I expected him to be stingy or is polite when I thought he might be rude...and that tiny moment somehow validates all that hard work and effort I expend every waking moment of the day to mold my little children into God-fearing, productive, and well-mannered human beings.

Since I often blog about the frustrations of being a parent, I thought I'd share one of those vaidating moments today!

Bryson has been in Kindergarten for a little over a month now, and has exceeded my expectations. I was worried that the long days would be too much for him since he was never in all day preschool before and that the large class size would give him an audience for his silliness and cause for distraction. So far, he is doing just awesome, and this Mama couldn't be any prouder!

As he got off the bus Friday, he had a little extra bounce in his step and excitement in his eyes. As he darted in the house, he said incredulously, "Mommy, I got a REWARD today!" I smiled and reached for it, figuring he got a sticker or pencil or something like that. No, he actually received certificate in a folder that names him "Walter Shade Early Childhood Center Asset Builder of the Month." And then the certificate goes on to describe the kinds of "assets" he is building!

"Has intentionally, deliberately, and repetitiously built assets and relationships by demonstrating kindness and caring. He often asks about the well-being of classmates who are upset. Bryson follows directions the first time given. He is eager to learn new things and show his enthusiasm by listening intently and volunteering to answer questions. He often asks his teachers to assess his work as he strives to do his best with every activity." Signed by the Superintendent and Principal.

I told him I wanted to take a picture of him with his award, and he spontaneously struck this pose.  I love this kid!

I'm sure I'll find myself coming back to this post and reading it in the future when my little "asset builder" isn't...ahem...quite exhibiting all of those admirable characteristics. But for now, I'm just thrilled for my little man's success! I know if we can just channel all of that energy he possesses in a positive direction that he is capable of great things.


~Bethany